Nine Power Questions to Help You Stand Up to Discount Pressure (Without Caving In or Alienating)

Many businesses have not yet fully recovered from the Great Recession, and they are still looking for ways to cut their budgets. All too often it’s the supplier’s price that ends up on the chopping block. Andrew Sobel explains how to respond when a customer hits you with the dreaded “D” word: “We like your proposal, but we need a discount!”

Hoboken, NJ (March 2012)—Though the economy has experienced a slight uptick since the harried days of the Great Recession, many businesses, big and small, are still operating in penny-pinching mode. The pressure to do more with less has not subsided. If you’re a business owner, you probably already know where this drive to cut costs and squeeze suppliers is going—and it’s nowhere that benefits you. More and more of your customers are uttering those four dreaded words, “I need a discount.”

Andrew Sobel suggests that rather than respond with a yes or no, you should transform the conversation—and possibly the relationship—by asking a few power questions.

“Clients ask for discounts for different reasons,” says Sobel, coauthor along with Jerold Panas of Power Questions: Build Relationships, Win New Business, and Influence Others (Wiley, February 2012, ISBN: 978-11181196-3-1, $22.95). “If you can find out why your customer wants a discount by asking the right questions, you may discover that you can give them what they need without having to undercut your own bottom line.”

Sobel says he has observed at least four types of discount-seeking clients. They are:

Red Ink Clients. These clients are in genuine financial trouble. If this is the case, you need to know the full story.

RFP Czars. Some clients want to bid every project out and will seek out the lowest possible price. They believe you are a commodity. GE is notorious for this.

Bargain Hunters. This type of client always wants to feel you’ve given them a deal, even if it’s just a small concession.

Chicken Littles. Some clients just like to complain about how much everything costs and don’t actually need a discount to be satisfied. They want to be heard and understood.

“If your past response has been to timidly reduce your price to keep the client happy or to fire back a resounding ‘No!’ there is a better way,” explains Sobel. “When you instead opt to deepen the interaction by asking the right questions, you can achieve three important things.

“First, you’ll find out what kind of discount seeker your client is,” he adds. “Second, you’ll force your client to reflect on the value you bring to the table and how your business is different from other businesses. Finally, you’ll illuminate what the client really values, allowing you to potentially renegotiate the engagement in a way that preserves your profitability.”

Read on for a few of Sobel’s key questions and when to use them.

To kick start the conversation: “Before I respond, would you mind if I asked you a couple of questions so I can better understand your request?”

To dig deeper: “Occasionally a client requests a discount, and I find I am able to be more helpful if I understand why they’re asking for one. Can you say something about why you think my fee is too high and would like a reduction?”

To size up your competition: “I know you are talking to other service providers about this project. Do you feel my price is dramatically out of line with the market?”

To say “no” while identifying possible terms for a positive negotiation: “I am able to reduce the price when the scope and breadth of the proposal are also cut back. Would you like me to prepare an option for you that would do that?”

Or you might also say, “We are able to reduce price in exchange for terms and conditions that help lower our risk and long-term cost of doing business with you. Would you like me to develop a proposal for a long-term supply arrangement with built-in discounts for guaranteed volume levels?”

To learn more about your client’s buying process: “Where will the budget come from for this? Who can give this final approval?”

To accentuate the value you are offering and clarify what is most important to the client: “I’m not sure we had a thorough discussion about the benefits you expect from this. Can we review those, as you see them?” Or you might ask, “What parts of this proposal are most important to you? Which aspects of it do you find less valuable?”

To differentiate yourself from the competition: “Would you mind if I briefly reviewed several aspects of my proposal that I think represent value above and beyond what our competitors offer? I’m not sure I articulated these very well.”

To tie your proposal to your client’s higher-level goals: “Can we review one more time what your goals are here? What are you hoping to accomplish?”

To go toe to toe: “Do you give your own customers discounts?” And if they say “Yes,” you respond, “That’s why you need me.” And if they say “No,” you respond, “So why should I?”

“The goal here, of course, is to preserve and strengthen the client relationship—assuming it’s a client you’d like to keep,” says Sobel. “If you’ve priced your services properly, you cannot afford to discount. But if you simply say ‘No,’ he might head for the door and never come back. By using power questions, you can delve deeper into his situation and his needs. You might find another way you can show him the value he wants. In the long term that will be viewed much more positively than a one-time discount and is a much better option than turning him down completely.”

About the Authors:
Andrew Sobel is the most widely published author in the world on client loyalty and the capabilities required to build trusted business relationships. His first book, the bestselling Clients for Life, defined an entire genre of business literature about client loyalty. In addition to Power Questions, his other books include Making Rain and the award-winning All for One: 10 Strategies for Building Trusted Client Partnerships.

For 30 years, Andrew has worked as both a consultant to senior management and as an executive educator and coach. His clients have included leading corporations such as Citigroup, Xerox, and Cognizant; as well as professional service firms such as Ernst & Young, Booz Allen Hamilton, Towers Watson, and many others. His articles and work have been featured in a variety of publications such as the New York Times, Business Week, and the Harvard Business Review. Andrew is a graduate of Middlebury College and earned his MBA at Dartmouth’s Tuck School.

Andrew is an acclaimed keynote speaker who delivers idea-rich, high-energy speeches and seminars at major conferences and events. His topics include Developing Clients for Life; Creating a Rainmaking Organization; Collaborating to Grow Revenue; The Beatles Principles; and Power Questions That Win New Business. He can be reached at

Jerry Panas is executive partner of Jerold Panas, Linzy & Partners, one of the world’s most highly regarded firms in the field of fundraising services and financial resource development. His firm has served over 2,500 client-institutions since its founding in 1968. Jerry’s clients comprise many of the foremost not-for-profit institutions in the world. They include every major university, museum, and healthcare center in the United States. Internationally, Jerry has advised organization
s as diverse as the University of Oxford, The American Hospital in Paris, and Nuestros Pequeños Hermanos in Mexico, the largest orphanage in the world.

Jerry is the author of 13 popular books, including Power Questions and the all-time bestsellers Asking and Mega Gifts. He is founder and chairman of the board of the Institute for Charitable Giving, one of the most significant providers of training in philanthropy.

Because of the prominence of the firm and the impact of Jerry’s writing, few have had a greater influence in the history of the profession. He is a favorite speaker at conferences and workshops across the nation and internationally. He can be reached at

About the Book:
Power Questions: Build Relationships, Win New Business, and Influence Others (Wiley, February 2012, ISBN: 978-11181196-3-1, $22.95) is available at bookstores nationwide and all major online booksellers.